Showing posts with label Ambazon. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ambazon. Show all posts

Friday, March 13, 2015

No New Friends

Let me tell you about the friends I got! I can really count them on my hands. These are the woman that I most important to me... This is not in any order and I didn't put their real names because the nicknames I gave them are special...

1. Tiner Tot- She is relation... More like a sister. She helped raise me even though she isn't much older than me. She is a Super Woman to me! An inspiration to me. She is selfless and always available. I enjoy talking to her EVERY day. (Known her my whole life)

2. Cathy (Pink n Blue)- I have known her since 5th grade. We evolved together. From sharing lockers and doing hair to clubbing and then to motherhood. I can call her and tell her anything... And not feel bad. She likes her space and I don't mind. (Going on 20 years)

3. Shak- This lady was a co-worker. Everyone expected us to hate each other since we were both so strong minded... But the opposite happened. I spent a lot of time with her in Iraq after work. I haven't seen her in a long time but I sure do miss her and she still holds the title! (Almost 10 years)

4. Moni-  met her on the internet... Not in a freaky way but I was looking to lease an apartment at the complex she worked for. Things fell into place and we became instant friends. (7 years)

5. Yanny- We met when we were pregnant. She was having a boy and I was having Mimi. We were due around the same time. Her brother was my next door neighbor. I talk to her weekly and when we get together, time just flies. I love spending time with her. She is well versed in the Bible and cooking. (10 years)

6. Gabba- She is my newest addition... She is real, she is raw... She is loyal. I like that we are honest with each other. I do not judge her and she doesn't judge me. I can be myself and say crazy things without thinking. I like that.
(Our friendship is 3 years new)

7. My Demanding Dominican!- I used to work with her and do her hair. We always ended up at the same places. It is funny because we are a lot alike but so much different. I think I get to see a side of her that not many other people get to see. She rattles my cage and I rattle hers too. I give it to her straight and she does the same for me. I like that. (6 years)

Now- Understand that none of my friends live too close... So what to do? How do you find quality friends in your 30's? I am still feeling my way around the idea. I will continue trying to figure it out.

Seems like more and more Gustavo is becoming my MVP... He is getting better at being my husband and the man that I need him to be. That is only making me love him again. I guess our life has been a novela but thankfully it's starting to get to the good parts.

 

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Me

 No Make-up... I was told that I hide behind my BLOG... and behind the camera... Not the case!
Gustavo gets a picture almost everyday! I think that I will try to take a picture of myself everyday for a month! I am sure it is harder then it sounds!

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Tina Maria Turner

I know that everyone in the World has a BESTIE... But I bet that mine is BETTER. Mine isn't even a Bestie... She is a BESTEST:)


I was 13 years old the first time that I was called an "AMAZON"... Though I really disliked her and the term... I have adapted now to both.... My nickname is "Ambazon" or "She Hulk" and her MEAN tail... Has been my best friend almost 15 years!

We have had a LOT of bumps in the road along the way... And many people do not like or cannot accept our friendship for what it is... I must say... At the end of the day... I TRUST her... I love her! And no matter what happens... When she needs me, I am there... And VICE VERSA.

Good Friends are so hard to find!

Since I have been out of the country for a VERY long time... I have lost touch with ALMOST everyone... Even my family but it seems like Tina is alway available for me.

When I get home I am going to find some pictures of the two of us and post them... There was a time when we weighed the same... I think it was in the 90's though!!!
I tried to steal pictures from her FB... But it froze:(